Mother Mystic's Musings

Many, many of my clients, both male and female, ask about LOVE.  Either they want to draw new love, save a relationship or just met someone and they’re sure it’s THE ONE.  There are hundreds, probably thousands of love spells on the web and in print but the best way to start is to LOVE YOURSELF.  If you are not loving yourself, you will not attract a healthy wholesome person who will give you the true long lasting love you crave.  If you’re already there, you’re self confident, you’re happy with yourself and know your path in life, then and only then are you  ready to attract a mate.

So, let’s start with drawing a new love.  You’ve done your work, you’ve gone deep within, taken a look at yourself and you’re happy with what you find.  Now you want to find the right person to share your life with.  Sounds good?  Here come the questions…what do you want in a mate?  What is important to you in a relationship?  Are you focusing on the outer person and not on the inner beauty?  A person’s character speaks volumes.  Do you want someone who will stand beside you through thick and thin, give you space when you need it and support you in your darkest hour?  Ah!  Now we’re getting somewhere!

When working with Love clients, I tell them to make a list of the characteristics they desire their mate to have.  Not physical, because physical looks change due to time and circumstances.  Personal characteristics, values, what you’d like to have in common with this person and also how this person will provide balance in the relationship.  If you love to talk, the other person should be either a good listener or enjoy a good debate, depending on your needs.  MAKE A LIST!

Once the client has their list prepared, I usually go over it with them to make sure they are being realistic and focused.  The list is then transcribed to a petition paper, which is dressed with the proper powder and oils.  If  the client is doing the work themselves, the paper is placed on a saucer under a newly cleansed and baptized lodestone.   I advise them to place a ring of 9 pink chime  candles around it that have been dressed with the appropriate oil and as you light them one by one, call out for your new lover “Come To Me!”  As the candles burn down, recite the Song of Solomon from the Old Testament.  I suggest this work begin on a Friday, if you can start on a Friday when the moon begins to wax so much the better.  Every Friday thereafter, light one pink candle and feed your lodestone a tiny bit of magnetic sand and repeat your recitation.

You should also carry yourself with confidence, knowing that your new love is on the way.  Let your inner light shine.  People who feel good about themselves give off a glow.  Like a moth to a flame, that glow, along with the magickal work, will draw your new mate.